Past, Present and Future

Cherish your past, live your present and plan your future.

Suicide is a crime

Suicide is a crime which may give ultimate relief to the culprit but leaves the dependents (of culprit) with much deeper pain and suffering.

आशिक तो बहुत हैं दुनिया मे, चंद हमारे भी हो तो क्या बात हो

आशिक तो बहुत हैं दुनिया मे,

चंद हमारे भी हो तो क्या बात हो।

हमें तो उन्से बेइंतहा मोहब्बत है,

उन्हें भी हो जाये तो क्या बात हो। 

We had enough time

May be I was '25 minutes' late, but I am sure of one thing........ that we had enough time.









* to understand the relevance of '25 minutes', listen to '25 Minutes', a song by MLTR (Links: video lyrics )

Two things that act like termite in a relationship

If your friend doubts that you are hiding something in your bag, you can hand it over to him/her for his/her complete satisfaction but what will you do if he/she doubts that you are hiding some parts of your life..... what will you do????

I think 'Doubts,which can't be cleared' and 'not sharing your discomfort about something inter-connected' are two things which act like termite in a relationship....  From outside relationship will look healthy, but actually it will get worst and worst with time.

If you really want to keep a relationship, do share your discomfort and resolve the troubling issues at the earliest.

Favor of God

Every favor of God makes me more confident that I am on the right path.

Thankyou dear God, thankyou sooooo much.......


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Weekend to check accomplishments

Weekends don't make me happy because it's the time when I look back and evaluate my accomplishments of the week, which rarely satisfies me. Yes, Ye Dil Mange More!! But I still like them because they  fill me with  euphoria  to do the 'more' in the upcoming week.

PS: 'Ye Dil Mange More!' which means 'this heart asks for more'  is the punch line of Pepsi Co.  for Indian Market

The color of real smile

"Smile looks golden when it's real and platinum when you are the reason behind it."

Love satisfies the most

Love satisfies the most when you get it in exchange.

Mom, I want to run into your arms

Today morning, I was listening to the below song and suddenly my heart started singing this song  for my Mom. Strange, isn't it??? but it's true.....I was feeling that mom needs me but I am not giving her the due importance and seva(service) she needs. I was feeling guilty. My heart was saying to me that 'I don't want to sing this song after she leaves us so I should do the needful now."

Lyrics of Rod Stewart's song  "RUN BACK INTO YOUR ARMS"

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah

Ooh, ooh (ooh, ooh

No matter how long it takes, baby

It would never be a day too long

All the mistakes I made

And the games that I played

Didn't know I was needin' you so bad

But I never thought that I would feel so lonely

And I never thought that I would feel so sad

I wanna run back into your arms tonight

I want you back here where you belong

I wanna take back all of those lies I told

I was wrong, so wrong

And now you're gone

Oh, yeah

Now you're gone

Just give me another chance, baby

To show you how much I really care

All that I put you through

I never knew

Didn't know I was makin' you so sad

Baby, now that you have given me a reason

And the time has come for me to understand

I wanna run back into your arms tonight

I want you back here where you belong

I wanna take back all of those lies I told

I was wrong, so wrong

And now you're gone

Now you're gone

Ooh, ooh

But you never miss the water till the well runs dry

But ya left me cold and lonely

And I know the reason why

I wanna run back into your arms tonight

I want you back here where you belong

I wanna take back all of those lies I told

I was wrong, so wrong

And now you're gone

Now you're gone

And now you're gone

All alone

Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)

I miss you, baby

I wanna run back to your arms

Sometime

Yeah, hey, babe

And now you're gone

Now you're gone

And now you're gone

I don't want to sing this song when she is gone.........I am glad that my mother is still with me( not living with me but with me) and I have a chance...........

Parents are the most beautiful gift by God to you and you are lucky if you are living with them.Treasure their  presence and the company. Don't leave any chance to regret at later stage of your life that you were not a good son/daughter or that you could have done more......

Change to change

Be the change, to bring in the change.

Who can write beautifully

They asked me,"who can write?" 
And I said,"Any literate can write but he should be clear in his thoughts." 

They asked me ,"Who can write beautifully?" 
 And I said,"Only a beautiful heart......." 

They asked me,"Are my write-ups beautiful?" 
And I said,"An artist should never judge his own work.I just try to write and that's all I do."

The more you spread love the more you get

They say that the more you spread love the more you get...... I am wondering where's the 'get' part.....

Today, I had a chat with a sweetheart who was a little disappointed.

A balance in life

About 2-3 years back, I was watching discovery channel. They were showing a documentary on Giraffes.There was a forest(I don't remember the name) where the population of giraffes was increasing rapidly... When the population was too high, the population of older giraffes started declining. Discovery team was there to find the reason behind this sudden increase in death rate of older giraffes. After doing all the research work they found that in that forest, there are some trees which are gaining a tendency to grow poisonous leaves after a certain height. Only older giraffe(as they were taller than younger giraffes) were eating those leaves and so only older giraffes was dying. It was nature's attempt to keep a balance...

We should also learn from nature and try to keep a balance in our life..

A balance between studying and having fun,
A balance between profession life and personal life.
A balance between tradition values and modern views......
A balance between love life and friendship.

A balance in life........... that's all we need

My dearest and most important possession

A blogger asked me about my dearest and most important possession?

My reply :

"Well,answer is not difficult for me.. It was in my mind the moment I read your question..but sometimes it takes time to find words.

It is all that I have received from my parent’s genes because that’s all I have which makes me special. Be it’s mental (creative & logical) ability, generosity, altruistic nature, continuous efforts for the betterment of life(and the society), simple living, being so transparent and open. no show-off… and much more....in short it’s my philosophy towards life and God(parents) gifted qualities.

If you are thinking that I am praising myself then I must tell you that I am not.. I’m just praising my dad and mom for what they have given me.."

Go to temple via beggar's street

If you really want to go to a temple, then go via beggar's street. It will cut-short your wish-list, make you modest, and will give you reasons to thank Him.

Last week(26th June), I had an incomplete discussion on God with Umang bhai. He said that he don't believe in today's God. When I asked him the reason, he said, it's because he don't like the way people worship him now. He said-"what I see... ppl doing is..begging...begging begging...all the time before God... praying (decent name for begging)... selfishly..... for own welfare..." I felt a little strange. If people are not worshiping Him the way they should then why to blame God for it and start disbelieving Him.

Since we had an incomplete discussion, I don't know his point of view. May be he respects Him but doesn't worship/pray Him. May be he believes in God but a little disappointed on the way people worship(read beg) him. 

The discussion ended in between due to shortage of time but my mind kept on pondering. The result was obvious-above lines.

Good Morning !!!! oh! it's already afternoon

Good Morning !!!!

oh! it's already afternoon

Good Afternoon 'Friend'

If you also started feeling sleepy after seeing my yawning face then here's a special hot lemon tea for you

Enjoy it before you sleep :)

Have a good day

-Vipul
(who else it could be????)  

I made this email and sent it to some people after replacing the word 'Friend' with their names.

Facebook and my time

Facebook is killing most of my time(read work-time), so no more Facebook outside office.